| Crying Unto Jesus
by Samuel Rutherford
"Behold, a woman of Canaan came out of the same coasts, and cried
unto Him" (Matt. 15:22, KJV).
In this prayer the Syro-Phoenician woman cried with intense feeling.
Would it not have been more modest for her to speak gently to this
soul-redeeming Savior, who hears before we pray, than to cry or
shout? Was Christ so hard to be entreated? The disciples afterward
complained of her crying after them, but there were reasons for her
loud praying that are applicable to us.
First, need cannot blush. The pinching necessity of the saints is
not bound by the law of modesty. Hunger cannot be ashamed. "I mourn
in my complaint," says David, "and make a noise" (Ps. 55:2). "Like a
crane or a swallow, so did I chatter," says Hezekiah: "I did mourn
as a dove" (Isa. 38:14).
Second, fervor is a heavenly ingredient in prayer, even though God
hears prayer only as offered in Christ and not because of its
warmth. An arrow drawn with full strength has a speedier issue.
Therefore, the prayers of the saints are called their crying: "Out
of the depths have I cried" (Ps. 130:1). Jesus, our pattern for
prayer, offered up prayers and supplications with "strong crying and
tears" (Heb. 5:7).
Third, intense prayers prevail and are answered. "This poor man
cried, and the Lord heard him, and saved him out of all his
troubles" (Ps. 34:6). The cry adds wings to the prayer as a swift
courier speeds his message of life and death to the king during a
time of war.
Fourth, there is a sort of violence offered to God in fervent
prayer. "I will not let thee go," said Jacob to his Lord (Gen.
32:26). When Moses was wrestling in prayer for the people, God
answered, "Now therefore let me alone" (Exod. 32:10). There is
strength and muscles in such prayers, and by such prayers "the king
is held in the galleries" (Song of Sol. 7:5).
All these are good reasons for urgent prayer, but we must consider
some of the hindrances that keep poor sinners from this kind of
praying. These will be stated in the form of objections:
If prayers must be fervent, and even loud, what must become of me,
who am often so confounded that I cannot utter one word? In God's
reckoning, groans are taken as prayer, "For he hath looked down from
the height of his sanctuary . . . to hear the groaning of the
prisoner" (Ps. 102:19-20). And when the Spirit intercedes, it is
with "groanings which cannot be uttered" (Rom. 8:26 ). Faith sighs
to heaven, and Christ receives sighs into His censer for prayer.
Words are but the body, the outside of prayer, while sighs are
nearer the heart.
I have not so much as a voice. Yes, but there are other voices
besides those that are articulate. For example, there is a voice in
tears: "The Lord hath heard the voice of my weeping" (Ps. 6:8). A
baby has no prayers for the breast, but a mother can interpret his
Even weeping is often more than I can render. Intensity of feeling
frequently moves one to tears, but tears are not an indispensable
sign of grief. Hezekiah could only chatter and moan (Isa. 38:14).
Sorrow does not always travel the same beaten road. Weeping is but
the outward casing of sorrow, and there is often the most sorrow
where there is the least weeping.
All my ways of expressing prayer are imperfect. In God's book, a
look toward heaven or an uplifting of the eyes is set down as
prayer: "In the morning will I direct my prayer unto thee, and will
look up" (Ps. 5:3). What is prayer but a pouring out of the soul to
God? Faith will find another outlet if one be stopped. Feeling
breaks out in looks when voice is lacking, just as smoke pours out
of the windows when the door is shut. Dying Stephen looked up to
heaven by the window of the soul to give notice that a poor friend
was on his way, and that was prayer enough. If I were ready to sink
into hell, I should wish no more than to send one longing look to
heaven. There are many love-looks of saints lying in the bosom of
My heart is so hard, that I have no praying disposition. Then pray
that you may pray. If an overwhelmed heart refuses to come, go and
tell Christ, beseeching Him to come and fetch the heart to Himself.
It is Christ's eye directed to hard hearts that melts them. Although
this is the lowest degree of prayer, it is of no importance to the
essence of sincere praying as long as the soul expresses itself,
whether in words, groans, sighs, looks, or tears. Prayer is an
outpouring of soul to God, and the very exercise brings along with
it the needful affections.
What should be done with incoherent utterance? Broken petitions are
set down in Scripture as prayer (Pss. 6:3; 109:4; 116:3). The causes
of this incoherency in prayer are various. Sometimes it arises, not
from haste or unbelief, but from intensity of emotion. Love and
longing have eagles' wings and fly where language would only creep
like a snail.
It is not every part of a poor petitioner's supplication that
belongs to the supplication. Out of fear, the poor man may speak
broken words that cannot be understood by the prince. However,
nonsense in prayer--when sorrow, blackness, and a dark, overwhelmed
spirit dictate the words--is well received by God.
Prayer is often in the womb of a sigh: "Lord, thou hast heard the
desire of the humble" (Ps. 10:17, emphasis added). When others
cannot know what a groan means, God knows because His Spirit made
the sigh. He first makes prayer as an Intercessor and then hears it
But is all my crying in prayer the result of the Spirit? The flesh
may come in and join in prayer, and some things may be said in
haste, not in faith, as in that prayer "Hath God forgotten to be
gracious?" (Ps. 77:9). However, Christ washes sinners in His blood.
He rejects those things that are wrong, but He washes their prayers
and causes the Father to accept them. Thus, we should fervently lay
our hearts before God.